Your Own Dead & Other People's Funerals

In order to prevent your thoughts from wandering, you should acquire a feeling of being constantly with God in the heart. Then there will be no room for alien thoughts. To stop condemning others you should become deeply conscious of your own sinfulness and grieve over it, mourning for your soul as if it were dead. As someone said: With your own dead in the house you will not trouble about other people's funerals. - Theophan the Recluse